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The Problem with being too nice

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Being nice has never been so widely spread before. At the end of most movies, being nice is the message. In other words, you can get far in life as long you are nice to people. Supporting each other and being selfless become the norm. Also, on social media, influencers are showing support to everyone. As a result, we live in a time when people become overly emphatic. However, some people are taking this message too far. Expecting that being nice will always bring you further than being “mean”. But life is not a fairytale. When you are nice it doesn’t mean good karma will come. Worse, you sacrifice your energy and time on the wrong things. Resulting in losing yourself. That is where being too nice harms your life. Being too nice will become a problem.

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The Effect of Insults and Compliments

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Reading Time: 11 minutesWhen I was a toddler, I cried a lot. Because I did not like something or just because I needed attention. Furthermore, even when I received the attention I kept crying. Other toddlers kept coming by and asked the reason for my waterfalls. However, I ignored it and kept crying. I don’t know why I did this. This became a huge problem. …

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Having a fixed mindset will ruin your life

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Lately, I am watching music cover videos on Youtube. I am listening to this crazy song right now. While I scroll down the comment section to find the lyrics to sing along with, I encounter comments that trigger me. “I wish I had your talent! Good job!” In fact, it seems harmless. But, with this comment, the commentator destroys any effort these artists build up to be that good. This is the outcome of a typical human with a fixed mindset. Today, I will show you the result and the reasons why having a fixed mindset and being talented will ruin your life.

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How like-minded people can harm you

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Reading Time: 5 minutesFeeling understood by others is one of the best feelings in the world. Laughing at the same joke, sharing the same value, or just by simply sharing the same interests can make us feel understood. In addition, we will grow a good relationship with one another. Also, having the same mindset will make us feel stronger in our specific group. However, staying around like-minded people can bring you several problems. Today, I will enlighten you on how like-minded people can harm you.

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How to know he is the right one

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Imagine you are seeing this guy. Not just an ordinary guy, he is really special to you. The chemistry is great, you have the same humor and you understand each other. After a couple of weeks, you guys meet more frequently. Without realizing it, you like him a lot. The worst part comes now. You start wondering if he is the right one. How much does he like me? Will he stay? Or is he just playing around? To know if he is the right one, we need to analyze his core. Because when we take the appearance away, it is quite simple what to look out for. Basically, we all just want a partner who supports us. The only question we have to answer is how to know he is the right one for you! Let’s dive in.

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