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Do the hard things first

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Intending to start something new and challenging is always easy at first. You are motivated to finally finish it. But somehow like many occasions, those projects will forgotten. It’s hard to keep up your consistency. I saw this numerous times. While researching for the cause, I realize, they don’t get their priorities right. Instead of doing the hard things first, they procrastinate. Because they don’t have time or they need to warm them up. I know. It’s hard to do the hard things first. But here is a reminder of why you should finish them.

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The Gift of Patience

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In a fast-paced world, patience has no space. Instead the desire for achievement, and rewards pushes the growth of impatience. We want good things. We want things easy. And most of all, we want everything as fast as possible. Impatience is a driving car without brakes. We drive fast indeed. But we are doomed to crash. The gift of patience is never been seen for the impatient. But for the ones who can wait long enough. But why do we rush and why should we wait?

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The Problem with being too nice

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Being nice has never been so widely spread before. At the end of most movies, being nice is the message. In other words, you can get far in life as long you are nice to people. Supporting each other and being selfless become the norm. Also, on social media, influencers are showing support to everyone. As a result, we live in a time when people become overly emphatic. However, some people are taking this message too far. Expecting that being nice will always bring you further than being “mean”. But life is not a fairytale. When you are nice it doesn’t mean good karma will come. Worse, you sacrifice your energy and time for the wrong things. Resulting in losing yourself. That is where being too nice harms your life. Being too nice will become a problem.

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The Effect of Insults and Compliments

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Reading Time: 11 minutesWhen I was a toddler, I cried a lot. Because I did not like something or just because I needed attention. Furthermore, even when I received the attention I kept crying. Other toddlers kept coming by and asked the reason for my waterfalls. However, I ignored it and kept crying. I don’t know why I did this. This became a huge problem. …

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Having a fixed mindset will ruin your life

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Lately, I am watching music cover videos on Youtube. I am listening to this crazy song right now. While I scroll down the comment section to find the lyrics to sing along with, I encounter comments that trigger me. “I wish I had your talent! Good job!” In fact, it seems harmless. But, with this comment, the commentator destroys any effort these artists build up to be that good. This is the outcome of a typical human with a fixed mindset. Today, I will show you the result and the reasons why having a fixed mindset and being talented will ruin your life.

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