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Do you want to be feared or be loved?: Part II

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What managers, leaders, and alphas always confront is the question of what to use. Should you use your status and power to display strength? Or do you show understanding and patient to show warmth towards your team members? As Machiavelli once said: “…whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved?” As for you, future managers, or leaders, this dilemma will always occur.

Furthermore, I do not blame you because it is a fight in our body itself. Who will win? The strength hormone testosterone or the warmth hormones estrogen and oxytocin? When you understand the importance of warmth and strength you will understand that many people in your environment tend to have one of these traits. The best part, you can use this knowledge to take advantage of it. Understanding these attributes makes you powerful and gives you a tool to compel people more easily. Let’s discuss the importance of strength and warmth. …

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The meaning of strength and warmth: Part 1

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Men and women are different. In the view of anatomy, behavior, and attitude. Therefore, 2 characteristics have a huge impact on us and what defines us. Warmth and Strength.  While women are seen to be warmer than men, and men are seen as stronger than women, those characteristics have an important influence on our role in society. It will become troublesome when it comes to a career.
In the next couple of posts, I will provide an answer to ‘Why are there fewer female leaders than male leaders?’, ‘Why are men not allowed to cry?’ and more. Furthermore, I will show you practical tips on how to deal with various work situations. But first, we need to understand the true meaning of strength and warmth. …

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30 Ways women can score big with men

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The greater the love for someone the more frequently does a woman gives and shows love. She will give her love every time, everywhere, and without condition. This is how a typical woman appreciates her partner. In 90 Ways to score a point with a woman, we should understand it by now. Men are different. If women want to score big points with men as they assume from other females, this strategy would not help.

Deep down in their true nature, every man will be the hero, the knight in shining armor. Therefore, men show their love only in emergency cases. For example, if you cannot finish your work for an important meeting and the deadline is coming, he will jump in and helps you. Here is what he thinks when he helps you successfully: “I scored so many points by helping her. It is now her turn, and I hope it is a big favor.”, “I am the hero!”, “I rescued her during an emergency, this must be unconditional love.” …

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Why you are better off without opinions

Reading Time: 7 minutes

In school, our teachers teach us that creating and speaking out opinions are fundamental to the free mind. Mostly, after every speech or presentation, students are demanded to speak their minds, through opinions. This will be a problem when opinions are based on weak research of a topic. Which can lead to radicalism and dangerous idealism?

However, throughout my young adulthood, I received many useless opinions. Furthermore, every kind of opinion I receive is either common sense, a selfish act, or without any value to me. Our society is not overloaded with information, instead, it is overloaded with opinions.

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Why life is worth living at any time

Reading Time: 9 minutesTwice a year, punctually to new year’s eve and two weeks before my birthday. I reflect on my life how I do so far. I list every achieved goal and all the mistakes I made in the last couple of months. In addition, I compare my past-me with my present-me. How far did I come? What did I achieve? What are my goals and plans? Also, what can I do to reach this goal? And lastly, who am I now? Do I change for the worse or the best? And, is my life worth living? …

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