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Behind every book lies a huge jungle of knowledge, breathtaking excitement, confusing mystery, or captivating personal story.
The goal of this self-improvement blog is to filter unnecessary information and seek the gold nugget.

What makes a man, a man?: Part III

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Reading Time: 7 minutes

It bugs me. Every time I hear phrases like, “Why are all men such pussies?” or “Don’t act like a girl!” First, what are the measurements to define what makes a man a man? Second, those phrases are pumped with double standards. Every person who throws those phrases automatically setting women as weak. People, who are insecure or do not get things done will be marked as girls. Mostly, I hear those phrases coming from girls themselves. In addition, they fight for gender equality but on the opposite, acting “girly” is not been seen as a strong trait?

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Do you want to be feared or be loved?: Part II

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What managers, leaders, and alphas always confront is the question of what to use. Should you use your status and power to display strength? Or do you show understanding and patient to show warmth towards your team members? As Machiavelli once said: “…whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved?” As for you, future managers, or leaders, this dilemma will always occur.

Furthermore, I do not blame you because it is a fight in our body itself. Who will win? The strength hormone testosterone or the warmth hormones estrogen and oxytocin? When you understand the importance of warmth and strength you will understand that many people in your environment tend to have one of these traits. The best part, you can use this knowledge to take advantage of it. Understanding these attributes makes you powerful and gives you a tool to compel people more easily. Let’s discuss the importance of strength and warmth. …

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The meaning of strength and warmth: Part 1

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Men and women are different. In the view of anatomy, behavior, and attitude. Therefore, 2 characteristics have a huge impact on us and what defines us. Warmth and Strength.  While women are seen to be warmer than men, and men are seen as stronger than women, those characteristics have an important influence on our role in society. It will become troublesome when it comes to a career.
In the next couple of posts, I will provide an answer to ‘Why are there fewer female leaders than male leaders?’, ‘Why are men not allowed to cry?’ and more. Furthermore, I will show you practical tips on how to deal with various work situations. But first, we need to understand the true meaning of strength and warmth. …

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Why you are better off without opinions

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In school, our teachers teach us that creating and speaking out opinions are fundamental to the free mind. Mostly, after every speech or presentation, students are demanded to speak their minds, through opinions. This will be a problem when opinions are based on weak research of a topic. Which can lead to radicalism and dangerous idealism?

However, throughout my young adulthood, I received many useless opinions. Furthermore, every kind of opinion I receive is either common sense, a selfish act, or without any value to me. Our society is not overloaded with information, instead, it is overloaded with opinions.

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Why life is worth living at any time

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Reading Time: 9 minutesTwice a year, punctually to new year’s eve and two weeks before my birthday. I reflect on my life how I do so far. I list every achieved goal and all the mistakes I made in the last couple of months. In addition, I compare my past-me with my present-me. How far did I come? What did I achieve? What are my goals and plans? Also, what can I do to reach this goal? And lastly, who am I now? Do I change for the worse or the best? And, is my life worth living? …

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