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Why external validation is poison

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There is one friend who I admire. He has a bad reputation among the Vietnamese society in Berlin. If someone hears his name they ask: “The creepy one?”. In addition, his reputation is so bad that he cannot comes near a girl. They flee. That comes from his lack of communication and social ability. But, I know his attention is always good and he seeks what everyone is looking for, friends, and love. And every time I take him with me he produces a chain of awkwardness non-stop throughout the night. But I ask him why this does not bother him that his reputation is miserable. He told me that external validation is poison to my life so I stop paying attention to it.

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Why you are not responsible for your loved ones – 5 Reasons

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Many people in my environment have a feeling of responsibility for others. They have the urge to be available for their friends, 24 hours long, and to protect them. As a result, their lives are constantly filled with problems not only on their own also with their friends. There is not one day they can relax, at worst, they have breakdowns. Furthermore, they know this kind of mindset brings them down, but they do not want to feel guilty if something happens to them. Some of you may relate to it. In addition, they would rather not feel guilty of the pseudo-responsibility they set themselves up than live peacefully. This broken mindset starts with your close friends and family members and can turn towards the state of the world. Here are 5 Reasons why you are not responsible for your loved ones.

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The only way to achieve your goal

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Everyone does struggle to achieve their goals. Small goals, big goals, achievable goals, and utopian goals. Not only we do not know how to set our goals right but also we do not know how to stay motivated to finally get there. There is only one way to achieve your goal. Let’s please your mind.

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How to get a leading position as a woman: Part IV

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Women have it tough. Besides their period, and its emotional rollercoaster and suffering, childbearing responsibility,  women are still disadvantaged today all over the world. Furthermore, in some parts of the world, young girls are forced to prepare themselves to be young mothers and wives. Less education to none at all and marrying at a young age causes many girls to depend on men. Otherwise, in western countries, those problems are mostly gone. Women have the same chance to raise in terms of their careers. But, women are less represented in leading positions than men. Even though, they have the same access to higher education and the same qualification as men. What is the difference? Why are there fewer women at the management level than men? How to claim a leading position as a woman? Let’s please your mind. …

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What makes a man, a man?: Part III

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It bugs me. Every time I hear phrases like, “Why are all men such pussies?” or “Don’t act like a girl!” First, what are the measurements to define what makes a man a man? Second, those phrases are pumped with double standards. Every person who throws those phrases automatically setting women as weak. People, who are insecure or do not get things done will be marked as girls. Mostly, I hear those phrases coming from girls themselves. In addition, they fight for gender equality but on the opposite, acting “girly” is not been seen as a strong trait?

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