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Why should you stand up for yourself?

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In my social environment, I have a friend whose vocabulary is consisted of ‘maybe’, ‘I think…’ or ‘I believe.’ Those words are the product of his insecurity. He is eager to express his opinions and feelings about various topics that he knows a bit about. A dangerous trait: Why you are better off without opinions. As a side effect, when someone challenges his ideological view he backs up quickly. That is the reason, why he overflows his expressions with half-committed words like ‘maybe’ and ‘I think’. For example, he said once: ‘Democracy is a shitty system to invest in. Maybe.’ By putting maybe in that, he shows his insecurity and a statement not to challenge him. But, living like this leads to 2 things.

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How to get a leading position as a woman: Part IV

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Reading Time: 6 minutesWomen have it tough. Besides their period, and its emotional rollercoaster and suffering, childbearing responsibility,  women are still disadvantaged today all over the world. Furthermore, in some parts of the world, young girls are forced to prepare themselves to be young mothers and wives. Less education to none at all and marrying at a young age causes many girls to depend on men. Otherwise, in western countries, those problems are mostly gone. Women have the same chance to raise in terms of their careers. But, women are less represented in leading positions than men. Even though, they have the same access to higher education and the same qualification as men. What is the difference? Why are there fewer women at the management level than men? How to claim a leading position as a woman? Let’s please your mind. …

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What makes a man, a man?: Part III

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Reading Time: 7 minutesIt bugs me. Every time I hear phrases like, “Why are all men such pussies?” or “Don’t act like a girl!” First, what are the measurements to define what makes a man a man? Second, those phrases are pumped with double standards. Every person who throws those phrases automatically setting women as weak. People, who are insecure or do not get things done will be marked as girls. Mostly, I hear those phrases coming from girls themselves. In addition, they fight for gender equality but on the opposite, acting “girly” is not been seen as a strong trait?

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Do you want to be feared or be loved?: Part II

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Reading Time: 8 minutesWhat managers, leaders, and alphas always confront is the question of what to use. Should you use your status and power to display strength? Or do you show understanding and patient to show warmth towards your team members? As Machiavelli once said: “…whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved?” As for you, future managers, or leaders, this dilemma will always occur.

Furthermore, I do not blame you because it is a fight in our body itself. Who will win? The strength hormone testosterone or the warmth hormones estrogen and oxytocin? When you understand the importance of warmth and strength you will understand that many people in your environment tend to have one of these traits. The best part, you can use this knowledge to take advantage of it. Understanding these attributes makes you powerful and gives you a tool to compel people more easily. Let’s discuss the importance of strength and warmth. …

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The meaning of strength and warmth: Part 1

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Reading Time: 6 minutesMen and women are different. In the view of anatomy, behavior, and attitude. Therefore, 2 characteristics have a huge impact on us and what defines us. Warmth and Strength.  While women are seen to be warmer than men, and men are seen as stronger than women, those characteristics have an important influence on our role in society. It will become troublesome when it comes to a career.
In the next couple of posts, I will provide an answer to ‘Why are there fewer female leaders than male leaders?’, ‘Why are men not allowed to cry?’ and more. Furthermore, I will show you practical tips on how to deal with various work situations. But first, we need to understand the true meaning of strength and warmth. …

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