self-improvement

The Secrets to asking a man for help

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Men are simple. If they need help they ask for support. Also, if someone needs their support they have to be asked. This general rule is common regardless of the status. In other words, you have to ask a man for support if you are his friend, family, or even his partner. Just because you are his wife, for example, does not mean he will give you his support freely. This is troublesome for many women, as I could observe. The following 4 parts blog series will give you an in-depth analysis of why and how to ask a man for help. In the next 4 blog posts, I will answer you: why you have to ask a man for help, how to get it without being rejected, tips, and the common mistakes you might make.

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How to trust again – an entrepreneur’s approach

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I still have the opinion that trust is not needed everywhere. Trust makes us weak and vulnerable. And no, you can live a good life without trust. Because in many situations trust is not needed to have fun. Trust is only needed if you want to share something personal with someone. However, be aware of who you are trusting, why you are trusting this person, and for what. Sharing your life just to talk about it without any solution? Nope, not my cup of tea. Sharing your personal moments with someone who you are trying to build a future? Yes, sounds more like a reason to trust. Read more about my thoughts about trust.

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Why external validation is poison

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There is one friend who I admire. He has a bad reputation among the Vietnamese society in Berlin. If someone hears his name they ask: “The creepy one?”. In addition, his reputation is so bad that he cannot comes near a girl. They flee. That comes from his lack of communication and social ability. But, I know his attention is always good and he seeks what everyone is looking for, friends, and love. And every time I take him with me he produces a chain of awkwardness non-stop throughout the night. But I ask him why this does not bother him that his reputation is miserable. He told me that external validation is poison to my life so I stop paying attention to it.

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